Open Question: How is it possible for another race of people desire another race?

Like for dating, marriage, whatever...........how is it possible that this race or any race desire a race thats never the standard of beauty? Or shown in good light? Ect. like the other races? It amazes me when I see this type of couple together..........when there never shown in the medai, they had to fight just to be shown in ads other then a small hoilday for one month. This race on tv is shown as sluts or loud and mess and when you see other races on tv or ads they have this Disney glow. How are these people who desire or date this race strong minded to give the race I speak of a chance?