Open Question: Why cant feminists get over the fact that men and women doing the same thing?

are emotively percieved differenty in certain things.. A Patric danicka getting all manly in her racing suit cussing at the camera after a bad day is just not seen or felt the same way as a man doing it, just like a man doing the ribbon in a pink body suit during a rhythmic gymnastic competition is emotively percieved differently from the gazelle like women we are used to. Yes there were a ton of male racing drivers who did the same as she did, but its okay BECAUSE THEY ARE MEN and they dont come over as some sex confused transgender weirdos when they act manly. Except when they exagerate it, like senna did on occasion, then they get criticism over how they are bad role models. Will feminists ever learn to deal with the fact that men and women will be percieved differently in a lot of things, although they do the exacty same thing ?