Open Question: maybe a bit to personal but……..?

my husband has had a problem in the sack since my son was born, where he "wins the race before really competing" he is very touchy about it and we have talked about seeing someone about it but when we enquired the price was ridiculous, admittedly i feel i am at some fault because since this problem began i have lost all interest, particuraly since i got pregnant and sometimes when he nags me for it i make a comment like "why it's not like i get anything from it anyway" which is horrible i know. My question is i guess, is it me? is it my post baby body? because that did change but not to dramatically and nothing should've changed down there because i had a cesarean. When my son was born i would tell him to hurry up because i didn't want to wake up the baby, is it that? Why did everything change? pdad99999 lmao and kitty kat yes i am pregnant again maybe you could read who's asking the question first dah and my son is nearly 3 not 1 i would tell him to hurry up because my son was an unwell baby you clearly don't have children.